Sexual Self lecture

1.) As a girl in our family they treated me as a normal family member, like my mom always command me to buy something at wet market or wash dishes or sometimes clean the house if they left and went to mall. Also as a girl sometimes we tend to be lazy and My mom will get angry if didnt do what tasked she gave to me but they respect and accept me for who I am.

2.) the do’s of a Girl is be resposible and obey what your parent tells you. and dont’s is dont do things that will cause you harm. like getting drunk and will go home late. For me if you are a decent girl you will know your limits and will know what your parents will feel if they learn that you are doing.

3.) As a Girl i think the right time to get married is when you are reponsible enough to handle things. Because being married was a big resposibility for us and to get married their are lots of things you need to do.You have to get stable job. For you to provide your future family. and also being married is for life so if you are not sure enough .dont get married! wait for the right time that you are ready enough to handle things. If you are already married you dont back out when theres a big problem. you will fight that problem with your husband. I think it will harm us to watch pornographic material, If someone watch pornographic material that someone will change his/her behaviour. and learn something Bad and will do “things”. The Characteristic that i will fall in love is when the guy is Understanding,Has Patient to me, respectful, and will make me happy in a way of cracking jokes and also has a Big heart. I will surely fall in love when that guy has that traits.

MBTI RESULT

In this psychological test that i take, i can see that my personality are really the same in the result of this test, I myself admitting that I am kind of introvert, because I am the person who wants to stay at home than to hangout with my friends, but sometimes, i go with them to have a social life. But i prefer to stay at home and read some books or play with my dog, zipper. As what the test result said that i am serious and quiet, i think I am not like that person for me i am jolly person and a very talkative person but in the positive side it said that i am a well-organized and hard working , Im steadily toward identified goals, if i will focus and set my mind on to it, i will be accomplished everything and i also think that is me. This test helped us to know more about our selves, and the attitude that we didnt really notice. we will find it here.

Physical self Lecture

Chicken skin

Chicken wings

Chicken

Pork

Biscuits

Junkfoods

Chocolates

Vegetables

Fruits

Based on my mom usually bought in supermarket is i think it is balanced because she buys a chicken ,pork, at the same time it has vegetables, and when she cooked of what she bought she always make sure that we gets to eat vegetable, because like me, since i was little, i really want vegetables, i am different kid because vegetable is my favorite dish, because for me, if I get to eat vegetable i will live longer and not a prone cancer, i dont want to have that kind of sickness because i dont want my parents to suffer in financial problem. And vegetable has many vitamins and lots of benefit

For me, when I look at the mirror, I am very satisfied on what I am looking , because this is what God gave me,not that pretty but not that ugly.. I like the most in my body is my eyes, because eyes can see everything even though what you are hiding, and eyes can see reality. And i dislike the most is my hands, because for me my hands are ugly, my fingers too, also my hands always gets sweaty. And its kinda disturbing for me, but in the other side, hands are very important, hands are the one who are working for us, like how can you take a bath when you dont have a hands, it is difficult right.

BLOG # 7 : Collage

41341773_683294995382973_1535144255029248000_n.jpg                         As what Charles horton Cooley said that our self is not present at birth it will develops only when you socialize. As you can see, as the year goes by,  my appearance changing also the way i think. I have come to learn as i grow up that i need to be aware of my self, the way i wear clothes, the way i speak, and also my attitude towards in other people. When i was 5-11 years old, i remember that i dont have self awareness. i will do whatever i want , just to enjoy my self or enjoy with my cousins. But at the age of 12, i became aware of the things that i dont notice in my younger years. I became shy and doesnt play in the streets anymore. for me the idea of personal development such as self knowledge, awareness, enchancing life style is very important to us people.Because it is our way to mold ourselves and to mold who we are now.